Comedian/Motivational speaker, Alibaba, shared this via Instagram this
morning.
"People who have only sex to offer are the ones who get jealous,
suspicious and
quarrelsome. You know why? Because they know
that you might go out one day and find someone who has more
than sex to offer. So what does that leave them? So they start to
put their spouse in the defensive.
Go take a critical look at most of those relationships where the guy or
babe has only one thing to offer, they will keep talking of security. They
want reassurances always.
Tell me you love. Promise you will not leave me.
Are you sure you are not playing with me? Am I the only one in your
life? Do you really love me? Are you tired of this relationship? Do you
still love me? .... blah blah blah! When all you have is a hammer
everything is a nail. That is what sums up these kind of people. That
explains why they get so angry when you are away from them for so long.
Their only stake in the relationships needs to be activated regularly to
remain relevant in the scheme of things and in their spouses thoughts.
"That also explains why many who marry because the sex is good, find
out later that good sex doesn't pay bills. Neither does it cook, run the
home, guarantee respect, make your spouse a person you can rub minds
with and not skin. You see you may not know it, but I will tell you, you
may be extremely beautiful. That is good. But like sex, if that beauty is
all there is to you, in the relationship, the day that beauty is discounted
by someone else who has brain and beauty body and cooking skills, with a
good dose of home management, last last na modeling agency go need you.
So you are a guy, and all you have in your value proposition brief case is
muscles.
Hiaaaaam. No common sense. Nothing else. So Iet's look at the
sex sef... after a while, its bargaining value in the relationships could
diminish. When that happens what will be your new bargaining chip?
Same goes for cash. I know a top society lady who married a big time
Lagos big boy, when she knew he was in bad times, she vamoosed! And
went to kids for another man. How could she? She could, and she did.
Some people too, if the marry you because of your Dad's political office,
when the term of office is running out, they run out too."
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